Tuesday, January 10, 2006

Observations from afar

I am not sure what the hell is going on but three people that I read fairly religiously had their feelings hurt by other people. I don't know details or who said what or did what but I think that sucks. Kristine over at Random and Odd has decided to auction off key portions of her marriage ceremony to the highest bidder on ebay. My first reaction to that was "hmmmm, not sure I could do that (I am a tad bit of a control freak) but hey, whatever it takes to get her the wedding she wants." I kept my opinion to myself. Why? Because I know this is gonna shock y'all, but I can almost bet Kristine does not get up every day and go "Well, fuck, if SFG does not approve of a certain part of my life, I may as well grab a razor and end it all now." I am certain that does not occur. She is a grown woman with children of her own and while you may think you "know" her, we are only given glimpses into her world even though she seems pretty darn candid on her blog. Y'all just don't know. Y'all don't know the intimate details of her life or what she does what she does. So you know what, if you don't like what she does, fine. No biggie. I doubt she will think less of you for that, but why be nasty? Why be a fucktard? As my mama says, "If you ain't got something nice to say, I'll send my daughter over to fuck your world up." Or something like that.

Two other very sweet girls, Nessa and Melanie, got their feelings hurt and I really don't know what the hell happened there. I was pretty much out of the blog world this weekend and missed the whole damn thing. However, again, why be nasty? I don't know what this person or persons did, but clearly it affected both of these girls in a negative way. Once again, I don't know these girls in real life but Nessa freakin offered up her house to me when the hurricane came. Sight unseen people. She was just like "Drive west, bitch. We'll figure out the rest later." Or something like that. I mean, how sweet is that? I could be ANYONE. A serial killer. A flasher. A Republican. Shudder to think, people. Shudder. To. Think. She did not even bat an eyelash. Upon learning that I was staying with family, she still left the door open in case I wanted to be closer to the husband. This is not someone whose feelings I would just stomp on for my own shits and giggles. I am only recently really getting to get a feel for Melanie but fuck, she is funny. That alone makes me heart her because what is better than a sense of humor? I say nada. So here is my advice to you (take it or leave it) why not think before you do whatever it is you did, ok? Behind all the jokes and silly pictures are real people who have feelings that get hurt just like yours do. If you don't like what someone has to say, move on to the next blog. That's all it takes. Take out your aggression on your husband like the rest of us do. I mean really.

Elizabeth at 9:14 AM

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at 9:36 AM Tammy said...: Two words: People. Suck.

There is no reason to be nasty to others. If you don't agree. Move the fuck on.

Sorry for the foul language, but damn that shit pisses me off!
at 9:42 AM Fabnormal said...: I don't know nothing about any of that, but yeah, I agree, get over yourself.
at 10:00 AM Kami said...: AMEN.

Some bitch went off on my girl, RSG, too.
at 10:12 AM Spikey1 said...: Wow, too much drama for me guys.
Oh is this statement true... "Take out your aggression on your husband like the rest of us do".
at 10:17 AM Danielle said...: it happens to all of us. I am notbeing insensitive but I was blasted for two weeks and even called racial slurrs. People are just assholes sometimes.
at 10:31 AM Katie said...: I don't know anything about what happened, but it sounds like it totally sucks. As someone who has been the brunt of blogger-world ass-troll fucktardedness in the past, I know how shitty it can be. I hate fucktards!
at 11:12 AM Nessa said...: awwww - you're too sweet to me! Thanks, sugar!
at 4:07 PM Sea_creature said...: It's the same thing on the internet as in the real world... People will bash others to make themselves feel better. 'Cept they can hide behind a screen name here. So lame...
at 2:07 PM MilkMaid said...: SeaCreature said it before I could...bingo.

I've been on the getting end of this kinda shit and it sucks. My tears were real, pain real..just like these gals you talk about SFG. The ARE real people with real feelings.

Kami goes redneck better than anybody I've seen in a long time, we just need to keep her on the payroll around here lol!